Caring for Someone With Multiple Myeloma
One of the hardest things about caregiving is recognizing change. As multiple myeloma changes over time, so may the needs of the person you’re caring for.
It’s common for your loved one with multiple myeloma to go through emotional and physical ups and downs. Learning more about it can help you recognize the changes as they occur:
Multiple myeloma is progressive, which means it worsens over time
People living with the disease may have times when they feel better and times when symptoms return
When symptoms worsen, the doctor may change the person’s treatment
The time between receiving medicine, response, and relapse—as well as the number of cycles—can vary from person to person
Adapting to changing care needs
As the symptoms and needs of your loved one change, your role as a caregiver may also change. But there are some things you can do consistently to help, no matter where in the cycle the person’s multiple myeloma may be:
- Understand how the disease can impact the person with multiple myeloma physically. Below are the most common medical issues and treatments. If the person you’re caring for experiences any of these symptoms, contact his or her healthcare team
Common Issues
Too much calcium in the body (hypercalcemia)
Cause
Breakdown of bone
Symptoms
- Dehydration
- Constipation
- Fatigue
- Confusion
Common Issues
Kidney disease (renal failure)
Cause
Too much calcium and/or too much protein in the blood
Symptoms
- Weakness
- Shortness of breath
- Leg swelling
- Fatigue
- Confusion
Common Issues
Anemia
Cause
Low number of red blood cells
Symptoms
- Fatigue
- Weakness
Common Issues
Bone damage
Cause
Myeloma cells crowd out normal bone cells
Symptoms
- Fractures
- Bone pain
Common Issues
Weakened immune system
Cause
Lower than normal ability to fight infection
Symptoms
- Frequent infections
- Delayed recovery from infections
Common Issues
Peripheral neuropathy
Cause
Certain multiple myeloma medications, too much abnormal protein in the blood
Symptoms
- Tingling or pricking sensations (called paresthesias)
- Keep track of all medications. Treatments can also cause changes to the person’s health
- Prepare for medical procedures. Procedures like stem cell transplant or preparation and treatment with CAR T cell therapy may require a greater commitment from both the patient and the caregiver. Be prepared to help with basic day-to-day medical and practical issues and provide emotional support before and after these procedures
- You can learn more about stem cell transplants here >
- You can learn more about CAR T cell therapy here >
- Keep an open dialogue. Try to keep a tone that encourages your loved one to talk about how he or she is feeling
- Keep a running list of changes in health and other issues. Bring this list to each doctor appointment
- Talk with the person’s healthcare team about the options available at each stage of disease. Work together with doctors and nurses to stay informed about your loved one’s care plan
- Help the person with multiple myeloma stay as healthy as possible. It’s important for your loved one to eat well, rest, and limit contact with people who are sick
Learn more about caring for yourself during this time
American Cancer Society Caregivers >
National Cancer Institute Resources page >
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Your healthcare team is your best source of information.